99% of the time we are too hard on ourselves. We critic and judge ourselves with a harder look than anyone else. And 99% of the times we’re not even that bad.
That harder look can sometimes stop us from truly enjoying our accomplishments and moving forward.
I believe the reason why we are so hard on ourselves than we are to others is that we don’t quite believe in ourselves. We doubt that we are capable of doing what ever it is we are doing, and we feel that even if we do it, it won’t be that good. I guess it’s part of the human condition, to doubt yourself, and in someways i can be a good thing. I can teach you where to improve and what to do differently.
If you think your the best in the world you won’t learn anything. But if you think your the worst in the world you’ll never show the world what you can do, and you’ll never get anywhere.
It’s a matter of balance, somewhere between the self-loading and the gloating there’s a place where you can be critic of what you do but still be proud of it.